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Posted: 07 Apr 2014 03:00 AM PDT
Coaching Call #095 is out! The topic of this week's call is: Living At Home and In Debt – Does She Have the "Luxury" to Go After Her Passion?
The economy and the way we relate to our "jobs" is changing. But how do you move out of the old world paradigm, with its fear and student loans and family members that don't understand why you can't just get a real job already, into a reality where you can trust the Universe to support you and allow yourself to follow your passion?
That's the challenge that this client faced. Sure, the IDEA of using the Law of Attraction to manifest an awesome life sounds great, but when we actually go to put it into PRACTICE, it turns out we have all these fears. Listen in as we tackle them one by one and demonstrate that the process really isn't that hard, once you stop fighting it. Do you want to live in the New Economy where you actually get to do what you love and get paid for it, but your fears keep shutting you down? This call is for you.
Awesome Dudette's Burning Question: "How does LOA work when it comes to how others perceive us? For example, if I think I am the most hilarious person ever and constantly crack stupid jokes, will others think I'm hilarious just because I think I'm hilarious? And say the people who everyone loves? Why does everyone love them and want to be around them? Is it because they love themselves so much? Because sometimes you encounter people who don't seem that nice but everyone seems to love. But if I don't think they're that nice, why do a majority of other people LOVE them?"
Dear Awesome Dudette,
Here's your video answer:
View the video directly on Youtube: http://youtu.be/5QQJlNvvtIA
For the "Readers" (you know who you are), here's the transcript:
Ok, first of all, remember that you can't know what anyone else is perceiving. You can only perceive your perception of their perception. Ha. That's right people, we're going further down the rabbit hole today.
You have to remember that you're in the center of your own holographic Universe. Everything that you perceive is only there because it's a reflection of your energy.
Now, a lot of people get themselves into trouble with this concept of perception, because they assume that 1.) they can see EVERYTHING there is to see (arrogant much?), and 2.) they actually know what other people are perceiving. But you can't do either. Your value as a human here on Earth is your perception – your unique perspective that no one else can have. We each offer a completely unique perspective that no other human or entity in this world can offer in precisely the same way. If that wasn't the case, then we wouldn't need any of us. We would just have some guy named Bob sitting here by himself… observing.
But that's not the case! We each bring our unique perspective and perception to the table. But in order to do that, we can't also at the same time share someone else's perception. In other words, you can only be in your own head; you can't be in anyone else's. How they might be perceiving something is completely irrelevant. The only thing that's relevant is: how are YOU perceiving what they are perceiving?
I'll explain further. Let's say that you actually do think that you're really funny. You go out and crack a bunch of jokes, and you attract a bunch of people that mirror back to you how you feel about yourself. In this case, they're not validating that you're funny; they're mirroring back to you the fact that you genuinely feel good about yourself. So, you're going to be in a vibration where you also attract people who think that you're funny. This doesn't mean that EVERYONE in the world thinks that you're funny. But you don't need everyone in the world to think that. Nor would you even be able to perceive everyone in the world. You can only ever perceive that which you're a vibrational match to. And the way in which you experience that shows you where your energy is at, or essentially, how you're feeling about yourself.
So, let's say that you're perceiving (from the outside, where you really don't know what's going on) a person who seems to have the adoration of many. Now, let's say that they really do have the adoration of many and they're experiencing that in a really positive way. That means that what's being mirrored back to them is that they feel truly good about themselves. It's not that everyone loves them because of it, it's that they're attracting people into their reality who are mirroring back how they feel about themselves.
If you, however, are looking at that from the outside, saying "I don't get it. What do they see that I don't see?", then you're sort of missing the point. What do they see that you don't see? A lot! Because they have a different perspective than you do.
Why you don't need them to like you
The problem arises when you start to look at what other people are looking at and you assume that, for some brain dead reason, you have to share their perspective.
When you see someone that you don't really like and you see others liking them, nothing has gone wrong. All that means is that you, personally, don't resonate with that person. It doesn't mean that they're bad. You see, you're whole question kind of hinges on the idea that we should all share the same perspective and opinion, and that only one opinion is right.
So, either I'm right when I like something, or you're right when you don't like it. We haven't yet really figured out that we can both be right. I can like something and you can not like it and that can be ok for both of us. I don't need you to like it in order to give me permission to like it. Taking that a step further, I don't need you to like me so that I can feel good about myself. And you don't need me to like you so that you can feel good about yourself, because the second that you do need that, the Universe is going to mirror that back to you. Which means that people who trigger that within you, people who aren't very nice to you, are going to come into your reality to show you that you're insecure about yourself and that you're asking others to provide you with the validation that you're not willing to give yourself. But remember, that's a losing game. Because they can only ever mirror back to you what your vibration is saying. So, you're essentially walking up to the mirror, asking it to reflect something other than what you're showing it. That's never going to work.
Even though you can't ever know what others are perceiving, it's entirely irrelevant. The relevant thing is, what are YOU perceiving and how do you feel about it? What is your reality mirroring back to you?
So, if you want to get more people to like you? Don't need them to like you. If you do like yourself first, does that mean that EVERYBODY will like you? No. Not everyone will resonate with you, or be in the same vibrational vicinity as you. In fact, those who are far away from your vibration will actually actively dislike you if they come across you. But that experience of disliking you will be a manifestation for them.
If you truly get stable in a vibration of self-love, you will no longer attract the people who do not resonate with you, who will not like you, into your experience. Which means that, yes, there will be people out there who don't like you, but you won't ever hear about it; you won't know about it; it won't affect you in any way. And even if you did hear about them, you wouldn't care. Because you realize that everyone gets to have their own opinion, their own perspective, and not everyone needs to love you! It's ok for you to find those people who do, the people who have always loved you, and allow your reality to show them to you. You don't need everybody to get on board with the same opinion, in any case.
If you're having trouble letting go of what others think…
For those of you who are having a really hard time with this idea of not really giving a crap what people think, and changing how you feel about yourself in order to attract a different experience, let me ask you this:
If you've been following the "old world" thinking of trying to conform so that others will approve of you, and needing them to approve of you so that you can approve of yourself, and if you've grown up on this Earth, you almost certainly have, how's that been going for you? Are you feeling good with that approach? Does everyone love you? Have they dedicated a statue in your name? Are they naming their children after you?
It's time to change our approach of how we fit into this universe, of how we fit into this world, and how we relate to each other. It's ok to want other people to like you and it's ok to enjoy it when they do. But don't need them to in order to feel good about yourself. When you free yourself from that shackle, and you allow yourself to feel good no matter what they think, then you'll attract only those into your reality that will mirror that back to you. In other words, those who will like you. Those are the people who always liked you, who would've liked you no matter what. It's just that you were not able to see them. So you didn't MAKE them like you, you simply filtered out all the people who don't, and filtered in all the people who already do, instead of the opposite.
Posted: 16 Oct 2006 08:22 AM PDT
As we learn more about using the Law of Attraction consciously in our lives, we become masters at visualizing, affirming, and attracting what we desire. We learn how to infuse our desires with emotion and power, we learn how to raise our vibrations through joyful thoughts and align ourselves more fully with the circumstances we want to bring about.
However, most of us forget one crucial step in the process: allowing. Allowing is a multi-faceted phase in the creation process, and it can be confusing for those of us who haven't had much exposure to the concepts.
In generations past, hard work was a way of life. In some cases, it was the ONLY way of life. Like many of you, I come from a long line of hard workers: Maine lobstermen and fishermen, lighthouse keepers, factory workers, seamstresses, midwives, housekeepers, and public servants. My ancestors were proud of their ability to roll up their sleeves and put in a hard day's work to keep food on the table and clothing on their children's backs. Hard work was simply a fact of life, not something to be resented, just something that must be done, like breathing or sleeping when the sun went down.
Through the examples of my forebears, I was taught that nothing comes freely in life. If I want something, it's up to me to put my nose to the grindstone and work for it. This isn't a bad thing, and I don't want to diminish the accomplishments of those who paved the way for us.
However, the more deeply we delve into Law of Attraction principles, the more we realize that there is another way. Some would call it a better way, but let us see it simply as an alternate path to a similar destination. What is this alternate path? ALLOWING.
As we just covered, action is needed at the beginning stages of conscious creation. We know we need to visualize our desires, affirm our belief in a new reality, raise our vibrations (thoughts) and come into alignment with the end result so it can manifest in our lives. What most of us do then is take further action to encourage our new circumstances to form physically. We might work harder to make more money, or we might join a dating service to meet the partner of our dreams. There is nothing wrong with these actions, except the belief that we need to "do" anything to make our desires manifest.
That's where allowing comes in. What if, after we've visualized, affirmed, and expressed our desires to the universe, we simply let go? What happens then? Most of us are under the impression that nothing would happen. Ah, but we can ALLOW the universe to manifest exactly what we desire. That's the beauty of the Law of Attraction. We don't HAVE to make things happen, we can simply allow the universe to deliver our desires fully formed and neatly wrapped in a beautiful package with a bow on top.
So how do we allow? There are three key parts to allowing:
1) Let go of the "how." This seems to contradict the creation process, because isn't the whole point to control the outcome? It may seem so at the beginning, but as most of us go along, we eventually realize that the more we try to control the outcome, the less circumstances seem to work in our favor. By consciously letting go of HOW the universe will manifest our wishes, we affirm that our desired outcome is already a done deal. There's no need to beg, manipulate, or control the situation because it already exists in perfect form. We simply need to let go and trust that the universe will deliver it to us in the most beautiful and beneficial way possible.
2) Let go of the "when." This is one of the most difficult things to do because we want what we want right NOW. We don't want to wait for divine timing or anything else. Unfortunately, our very impatience can delay the process. Why? Because by wanting it right now, we place emphasis on the "wanting." Remember, we create what we focus on the most! If we focus on wanting, we create more want. By affirming that our desires will manifest at exactly the right time, we automatically focus more on trust and faith. We believe that our deepest heart's desires are on their way to us, and guess what happens? They come more quickly.
3) Appreciate. It can be hard to appreciate what we have when we're not happy with our lives, but once again, it's all about what we focus on and what we attract. The more appreciative we can be about our existing circumstances, the more we will attract things to appreciate. If you have to, start with something small and obvious. Each morning when you awake, say something like, "I appreciate the opportunity to live another day. I appreciate the bed I slept in all night. I'm grateful that I can take a hot shower and put on clean clothes today." As you go about your day, take a moment to appreciate everything you can, no matter how small and insignificant it may seem. Over time, this puts you in a gratitude mindset and will begin to attract more and more things to appreciate – and more often than not, those things continue to get bigger and bigger the more you keep up with this practice.
So, does this mean that we never have to work hard again? We can just sit back and "allow" the universe to give us everything we want? Yes, and no. There is one more important point that ties in to the concept of allowing, and that is taking inspired action. Occasionally, after we have expressed our desires to the universe and we've begun "allowing" them into our lives, the universe will provide a way for US to bring about what we want, rather than simply plopping it into our laps fully formed.
In this case, we will usually feel a nudge in a certain direction. We might be inspired to start a business, buy a lottery ticket, attend a lecture, read a particular book, or any number of other actions. If we act immediately on these nudges, circumstances usually shift and opportunities appear. These opportunities usually create an opening that can help us to manifest our desires simply and easily, and often quickly.
However, remember that inspired action shouldn't be painful or difficult. It should feel wonderful and inspiring. You will feel excited about it, and eager to do it. That's how you can tell whether you are being inspired to take a particular action, rather than feeling like you "have to" do it in order to get what you want.
Simply let go, relax, and allow the creation process to unfold exactly as it will. If you feel inspired to act, act. If not, just trust that the universe has your highest good in mind. Believe that, and let it guide your every step!
Posted: 01 Apr 2014 10:24 AM PDT
Imagine being 24 years old and lost in life without any direction where to go or idea about your purpose in the world.
Imagine being an inch away from clinical depression, to the point where a doctor offers to prescribe you medication.
That was me.
I was stuck in a vicious cycle of walking aimlessly from job to job, punching in and punching out, coming home feeling like I wasted my day with uninspiring work. The pain from guilt and frustration ate away at my soul; it slowly created distance further away from my true purpose.
I grew tired. I started losing hope. I couldn't see the light anymore. Sleeping was impossible. Food tasted bland. The support and encouragement from my friends and family was the only light in a tunnel of darkness.
But something mystical happens in those moments we call "rock bottom." We stumble across something or someone that instills inspiration. Almost as if the Universe scheduled it into our day. For me, it was a book given to me by my aunt and uncle. The Key To Living the Law of Attraction by Jack Canfield.
With groggy eyes and a long-face, I casually thumbed through the first few pages, hardly expecting any miracle moments or words of wisdom . But what happened next was that pivotal, life-altering moment that everyone experiences at least once in their timeline.
My survival instincts came alive. I found a new, refreshing attitude that said, "I will NOT succumb to defeat. I will NOT let this be my story." We write our own story, after all. I took responsibility for my life.
The words in those pages breathed life into me, and it resurrected my weary soul. The first sentence in the book is, "When the student is ready, the teacher will appear." I learned how to use the Law of Attraction in my life. Now, it's my pleasure to give you the same chance to attract what you want out of life.
What is the Law of Attraction?
Before we get into how the Law of Attraction can work for you, I want to give you a quick run-down on the science behind it.
Everything in the universe is made up of energy. At a basic form, the sun, moon, stars, humans, plants, and animals are all energy. Energy is in constant motion and it never rests. It is always moving from one form to another. With that in mind, we are all a part of something bigger than ourselves. We are all connected to everything and everyone, similar to the Internet. Together, we make up the cosmos.
I don't believe in coincidence. It's not just a coincidence when two friends finish each others sentences, or when you receive a phone call from an old friend that you were "just thinking about a few days ago." It's not coincidence when you are in the right place at just the right time, or the perfect opportunity presents itself after you ask for it.
You are a magnet to everything that you attract, positive and negative. We carry far more power than we realize.
How To Use The Law of Attraction To Create Your Dream Life
Your emotions are a critical component in the application of the Law of Attraction.
Learn to listen to them. They are an important internal feedback system to the vibrational state you are creating. As men, we are trained to be stoic and tough. We usually push our feelings down inside and put on a resilient front. Men feel weak when they openly share their feelings with others.
But vulnerability is strength. Getting in touch with your feelings, owning them and expressing them builds character and courage. When I began to understand my feelings, I created an internal compass that guided me in the right direction.
When you are feeling joy, happiness, love, and a sense of expansion then you are on the right path. The thoughts you are creating, ideas you are brainstorming, and activities you are engaging in are moving you towards your ultimate purpose.
However, when you are feeling anger, sadness, jealousy, depression, you are moving in the opposite direction. The feedback you are getting is telling you that you are off your path.
Positive energy and intentions attract positive emotions and outcomes. Negative energy and intentions attract negative emotions and outcomes.
Take responsibility for everything that you are currently attracting into your life. There are no coincidences. There are no accidents. You can consciously and deliberately participate in the creation of your future.
I know what you're thinking, "But Tim. How is it MY fault if someone rear-ends me? How is it MY fault when someone steals my wallet?"
Living the Law of Attraction is not labeling things anymore. It is having a different perspective on someone stealing your wallet and not labeling it as horrible. It is what it is, now what opportunity has been created because of it?
Practice the habit of releasing the outcome and the attachment to what the outcome looks like. Be honest with what you feel and let it be a guide or signal, but do not act upon or let negative emotions rule you.
Sometimes the Universe hands you situations that will make you stronger, better, and more equipped to handle what is ahead in your life. Take these opportunities to gain wisdom, insight, empathy, experience, etc.
"You must bring yourself into alignment with what you are asking for. That's what joy is, that's what the feeling of passion is. But when you are feeling despair, or fear, or anger, those are strong indicators that you are not right now in alignment with what you are asking for." – Esther Hicks
Action Steps to Manifest Your Wants, Dreams, and Desires
1. Define Your Dreams:
Consider the different pillars in your life (health, wealth, relationships, personal , business, recreation, contribution, etc.) and give deep thought to each of these ares. Brainstorm 5-7 bullet points for what you want and what you don't want for each category.
Explore your authentic dreams and goals. Let your heart guide you to what you honestly feel is right; don't be ashamed by what you feel. This is your unique offering to the world. Embrace these feelings. Own them like it was your child, and you WILL attract them into your life.
DreamScaping is one of my favorite exercises.
Believe that you deserve whatever it is that you want in your life. You ARE worthy of it. Whether that be:
New Business Partnerships
The Universe acts as a mirror. When you put out passionate energy towards the things you desire, the Universe responds accordingly.
"To trust in the force that moves the universe is faith. Faith isn't blind, it's visionary. Faith is believing that the universe is on our side, and that the universe knows what it's doing."
2. Positive Affirmations
"Affirmations are one of the most powerful ways to create vibrational match for what you want to attract in your life."
Every thought and word you express to yourself is an affirmation. An affirmation is the action or process of affirming something. For example, "I am strength," is attracting a strong life force from the Universe. Conversely, "I am not good enough," is attracting unworthiness and fear.
I used to carry several self-limiting beliefs that held me back in life.
Ones such as, "I am not tall enough, I am not smart enough, girls don't find me attractive, I don't have the business intelligence to do that, I'm not good at talking to strangers, I can't develop a strong framed body," etc.
In the end, I realized it was all bullshit. So, I retrained my belief system using positive self-affirmations. Strong, positive affirmations are powerful ways to replace negative beliefs and self-limiting thoughts that you have internalized over the years.
Start with the template "I am ___". (Ex. I am intelligent. I am attractive to women. I am business savvy. I am good at talking to strangers. I am worthy of a sculpted body. I am deserving of wealth. I am strong. I am creative. I am grateful. I am patient. etc.) Write them down on a piece of paper, and thumbtack that paper to a spot on the wall where you will see it and read it every morning.
Special emphasis goes to the FEELINGS and HONESTY of this exercise and not just the words. If you write an affirmation with zero belief or something wildly unrealistic then nothing will manifest. Remember, it's the feelings that attract our desires, not the words.
Visualization techniques were a HUGE part of my growth and development after I was introduced to the Law of Attraction. Your subconscious mind cannot tell the difference between a real experience and a vividly imagined experience. It responds to all of them equally.
So set the scene and picture what you want your life to be. Make it as real as possible. What do you see, smell, hear, touch, taste? You will start to feel the positive emotions and energy radiate from within you, and by doing so, you are broadcasting positive vibrations out to the Universe.
Declare financially how much you would like to have and then visualize checks coming to you in the mail. Visualize your body healing and the aches and pains going away. Envision brilliant, creative ideas manifesting from your mind, and turning them into its physical equivalent.
Whenever a thought creeps into my head that says, "I'm not savvy enough to do this," I step back and close my eyes. I think back to a time where I faced a great challenge that I didn't feel ready for.
Then I re-imagine the intense effort I put in to prepare and educate myself, and the hours of practice and dedication. I finish with the feeling of triumph and success, knowing I can do anything I put my mind and effort towards, and I sit on those feelings.
Mark Hoverson, a $10-million dollar earner and mentor of mine also used visualization to craft his dream life.
Combine these techniques with a vision board and meditation and you are significantly enhancing the effect.
My vision board consists of:
Inspirational & motivational quotes
Pictures of exotic locations I would love to travel to
Pictures of big time leaders who I look up to and want to replicate
Things that motivate me (money, travel, leadership, fitness training)
Covers of my favorite books
My core values and life mission statement
To really live the Law of Attraction, you have to bring the right attitude to the plate. The whole takeaway from this belief is to give off vibes of positive energy. If your attitude is negative, pessimistic, hopeless, then you will not benefit from this.
"It has been proven now scientifically that an affirmative thought is hundreds of times more powerful than a negative thought." – Michael Beckwith
Constructing a positive attitude can be challenging, but here is my advice. I have trained myself to act quick when replacing negative thoughts with positive ones.. I don't let myself linger on stupid "should've, could've, would've" crap. Nor do I dwell on the "what ifs". I live in the present and I create my future every second.
I don't read, watch, or listen to negativity. If I see an article about some super sad story, I skip it. If the TV happens to be on, and one of those guilt-ridden abused animal commercials come on, I change the channel. If I hear a whiny conversation full of complaining , I excuse myself. It's that easy.
Lastly, I only surround myself with positive people who I want to be like. I don't hang around Negative Nancies. I don't spend my time with people who are comfortable with their mediocre life and have no desire to be better. My inner circle consists of energetic, aspiring go-getters and grateful, humble beings.
Anything else is toxic and will push you further away from your end goal.
The Law of Attraction is always in motion. Let it work for you.
"See it. Feel it. Believe it."
Tim Francis is a holistic health professional and Internet entrepreneur who teaches others how to live the internet lifestyle. You can reach him at email@example.com or www.tipsfromtim.com
Posted: 07 Apr 2014 11:34 PM PDT
by Yamaya Cruz
Do you want to enter the gates to heaven? We have all seen the images of the pearly white gates that lead us to the heavens. We have all heard the myths about an angel weighing our souls, judging us based on passed life experiences and our future intentions. If we have been good, then we are able to enter the realm of heaven. If we are bad, then we are forced to burn in hell for all eternity. However, we very seldom see, or even learn about the angel who was blessed with so much power to judge us and to discern our fate. That angel is our highest self. And it can see the past, present, and future all at the same time. We can learn to have access to our higher self, by opening up our third eye, while using the power of intention.
The number three is commonly associated with the crossroads and gateways. These two things represent the bridge between the physical and spiritual worlds. It is our highest self that leads us by the hand and guides us into the heavens. This is the world of the invisible. This is the world of secrets. This is the world of infinite possibilities where we can create our reality, as opposed to being a victim of it. However, entering these worlds takes a great deal of knowledge and discipline. The gateways and crossroads represent our abilities to make the best possible choices. Bad choices may result in conflict and chaos. If you turn left at the crossroads, we may be using all of our intuition and not logic. If we turn right, we may be taking the path of least resistance. In all situations, we are going to have to be aware of our past, present, and futures circumstances in order to make appropriate decisions.
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